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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/JuggernautPuzzled on 2023-08-28 14:33:00.
My boyfriend has destroyed our relationship, our family, and most importantly, me. I don’t recognize myself anymore. I have turned into this depressed, miserable person. I have lost all the good parts of myself, he’s drained the life out of me. After years of putting up with emotional, mental, and physical abuse I am finally mentally checked out. After having our daughter and realizing he still won’t ever change, something changed in me this time. Now he wants to save it and I am pretty much done but he doesn’t know it. I don’t really think i feel anything for him anymore… I no longer see a future with him and Now i am planning mine on my own without him knowing. If i stay with him i don’t think i’ll ever get live a life knowing what it’s like to be truly loved and respected and that depresses me. It depresses me i put up with his abuse so many years and now i am finally done. and ironically he finally wants to change and has started going to church, but that part of me that still loved him and wanted us is gone. Is there a chance i can get it back? Is this just a temporary feeling.