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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/DaddysBunnyx on 2023-08-28 06:57:40.

My partner and I have an amazing sex life, and in general I don’t have any trouble reaching orgasm through various methods. HOWEVER, anytime he goes down on me… I barely feel anything. Like it almost feels numb! It certainly doesn’t feel bad, and he really enjoys it which I do appreciate, but in terms of physical sensation it’s just… nothing. I always was led to believe (by men and women) that oral is the end all be all of sex acts, and that it’s like this magic tool to make women orgasm. But for me I’d much rather give than receive because I feel like I just lie there doing nothing! Please tell me I’m not alone in this! Oh and please for the love of god, no comments like “oh well he’s just not doing it right!” because that’s missing the point entirely.

Xo