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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/SnooRadishes1249 on 2023-08-25 19:31:55.
So during this winter I met M through some friends. At first she seemed a bit chaotic but a nice person and I genuinely enjoyed being her friend.
Soon I started to realise some not-that-nice things about her character, how she obsesses over her exes and how she has a very strong bias towards men to the point she makes misogynistic generalisations.
Now what made me want to stop being her friend all together is the news that during this month she was trying to seduce a MARRIED coworker or hers, an older man with TWO kids and a wife that’s extremely suic|dal whom she has met and talked to multiple times.
When she told me she had a crush on him I of course told her something among the lines of “wtf? Stop? You’re going to ruin a family” and her only response was “Um it’s already ruined? And it’s not like I want to raise his kids or marry him, I’m just so in love with him”
As the daughter of a cheating father I saw first hand how devastated my mom was with all this and I’m still traumatised knowing my dad wanted to abandon us for another woman. I tried to explain her that and she STILL tried to pursued him.
Long story short she left her work and promised not to text him again. She of course, texted him again and now tries to “keep me updated”. I couldn’t care less and I’m shocked she turned out to be so selfish and out of touch with reality and consequenses.
She calls me and I’m tired of avoiding calls, should I tell her why? Should I text her? Call her? Should I just block her everywhere? Meet her face to face? I never had to deal with this kind of thing before and I’m so lost.