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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/BlumBeer on 2023-08-25 13:45:39.
My best friend of 20 years got married at the local courthouse on a random Wednesday afternoon earlier this year. He didn’t tell anyone it was happening. 3 weeks later, he takes a 2 week honeymoon all around Italy. A month after that, he has a small dinner with just immediate family to celebrate. Now he’s planning his “bachelor party” in Cartagena Colombia and requesting we also give wedding gifts from a group of people who were NOT invited to the actual wedding. We are all in our mid 30s with full time jobs, the rest of us all have wives and kids. Am I the Asshole for not wanting to have anything to do with this? I’m def not going to Colombia and he’s def not getting a gift.