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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/hungryforcupcakes on 2023-08-25 09:33:56.
Myself, husband, 3yo and 15month old have all been sick. I just got back from taking my 15 month old to the doctor and put her down on the floor while I was putting my keys away. She walked into the room my husband was playing at his computer and unbeknownst to me grabbed his coffee cup and spilt the coffee, some on herself. Thank god it wasn’t hot. My husband dragged her away and I ran to grab her while he was screaming at me yelling things like are you for real? Why weren’t you watching her? How could you be so stupid! I should note the baby gate to the room was opened, and I didn’t know he had a coffee, his desk is obscured by the PC so I couldn’t see anything on his desk. She is very fast but not even as tall as the desk, so she can reach things that are just at the edge of the desk. He said I shouldn’t have put her down on the floor and that if I did I should have been 100% sure and checked all ofy surroundings before I did it. It was an accident I couldn’t see anything. I said he should also not leave things on the edge of his desk where the kids can get them. He thinks it’s 100% my fault and is super mad at me and won’t even look at me. Am I in the wrong? Am I the asshole?