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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/lazynlovinit on 2023-08-25 00:08:50.
When I was getting to know him I was impressed by how clean his condo was. I even asked him if he used a cleaning service, nope he was a very clean and organized person. I liked that he didn’t own a gaming system
He was also a good cook (he even had some professional training before deciding on a different career). He was kind to anyone he encountered, including pets and was good with kids.
When we moved in together we shared the housework 50/50. When I started taking classes while working full-time he did 70-80 % of the housework.
Then, when I was pregnant, he got hurt at work and couldn’t lift anything over 5 kg. His recovery never seemed to materialize, and he became more and more dependent.
After a year he still hadn’t gone back to work and was taking full advantage that I was on an 18 month maternity leave. I was doing everything and he was regressing to the point that I had to remind him to bathe and brush his teeth.
He wouldn’t lift a finger now that he realized he didn’t need to work so hard and he had a mommy to take care of him. He did literally nothing but watch movies all hours of the day.
d. Was it my fault he tuned out to be such a man child ? I blamed myself for enabling him until I made my escape.
So did I create a monster or is it that Prince Charming is always actually a frog?