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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Amethyst_healing6 on 2023-08-24 18:37:13.
Two nights ago, I went to the grocery store for cat food. I picked up some pre-made sushi for my lunch the next day. He went to work before I did so I cleaned around the house. I opened the fridge to put some energy drink cans inside and realized the sushi was gone. I text him asking him if he took it and he said yes. I didn’t get upset and just moved on with my day. I ended up getting a cheesecake slice from jack in the box and left it in the fridge so I could eat it after work. It was a terrible day at work and was looking forward to the cheesecake. Since I no longer drink alcohol to numb my emotions, I let myself indulge in desserts once in a while. I got home and helped get the kids to bed and I was going to sit down to read, eat my cheesecake and sip on some tea. I went to the fridge and realized it was gone. At that point I got upset and slammed the fridge shut, got my backpack and walked to the room. He asked me what’s wrong and I only glared at him. He said “really you’re mad over that, grow up!”
I went to bed and this morning he tried talking to me and I was still petty. I took the kids to school and he called me. He asked why I was still upset. I let him know that I was not upset that he ate the food. I was upset about the lack of communication. He asked why he has to communicate to eat food since we are not roommates. I told him that if it was food we always have at home then it would not be a big deal, but we don’t always have sushi or cheesecake in the fridge. I don’t care that it was eaten. I would have liked to know so that I could have stopped by the drive thru and picked up another slice. All I wanted was communication. AITA?