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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/OryxTempel on 2023-08-24 17:38:43.
Rant. If he wants something, my husband’s default action is to ask me. “Have you seen my keys? I can’t find my phone. Where are the garbage bags? I’m looking for…” is a constant refrain. I’m so sick of pointing out whatever he’s seeking, mostly because he doesn’t actually LOOK for it. It’s like his eyes glaze over and he can’t see the scene in front of him. Or he can’t think yo turn his head 90 degrees and look in that direction.
Today he was looking for the paper plates. They were sitting on the counter 3 feet away from him, behind him. All he had to do was turn around. So I said, “I’m not even going to answer you.” And he flew into a hissy fit and came out with “You always do this. You find a way to insult me. I hate the way you treat me. I’m never asking you anything again!” Like omg. So I said, “Here we go again. It’s always my fault.” And he huffed off and now we’re not speaking.
None of that exchange would have happened if he would act like a fucking adult and not a toddler who can’t tie his shoes. Yes you CAN find the thing. And I’m not going to help you anymore. I’ll stand here reading my phone while I wait but I’m not helping you. /rant
AITA?