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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/SnooPandas4016 on 2023-08-24 17:23:38.
I don’t know if anyone can offer me any perspective here but I’ve recently left a really unhappy abusive turbulent relationship and have no children from it. I was in it for 5 years and I had to leave my home because he was just making life impossible.
I’m living in a room share while he has taken over our house, I’m devastated because I miss my home and I miss him to an extent as well - I keep thinking could I have done anything to make it better? I’m sure I could but he seemed to just want his own way on everything
More to the point, I just feel utterly disposable and invisible now, I’m doing what I can to level myself up but will I ever meet anyone or have any chance of marriage/family? I’m literally terrified I won’t. I loved my ex very very much, miss him every single day and I’m trying to get over the relationship even though he’s sending me vile emails and trying to stop us selling the house - I can’t detach from him just yet because of it.
Is it true that women like me are just bargain basement? That’s how men view us? My ex has told me he’s upgraded to a 25 year old and that anyone worth their salt would do the same. I feel like I have no prospects anymore and I’ve just spent so much time crying and feeling like I have fked up my entire life.