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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/NicolLH on 2023-08-24 15:39:14.

I spent the night with my partner for the first time two nights ago after a fun date and an amazing night. We always have incredible chemistry and extremely passionate fun sex.

This night was extra special for me because my previous partner would never sleep naked and so this was my first night in more than 20 years of getting to enjoy skin-to-skin contact and cuddling throughout the night. It felt glorious and very healing.

In the morning, I woke up to him saying, “I can’t believe I’m getting to wake up with you! This is a dream come true.” I was feeling so much love and happiness and contentment and was very turned on when he started cuddling and touching me and then got on top of me.

But abruptly, he stopped and asked why I was so wet. He got up, saying we would continue later. After I got up, he pointed out a small wet spot on the bed where we had just been, seeming irritated. Yesterday, his replies to the couple of texts I sent him (telling him how much I enjoyed our time together) seemed distant and different and he didn’t initiate any conversation.

I’m so confused and sad and feeling guilty about something I don’t have any control over. I sent him a message asking for his pov about what happened and what he’s thinking and am just waiting to hear back. Maybe I’m just feeling very vulnerable and overthinking things? The past couple of months have been so nice and I don’t want to lose this.