This is an automated archive made by the Lemmit Bot.
The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Alycaat13 on 2023-08-24 04:13:42.
I (23F) am part of one of those “are we dating the same guy” Facebook groups. I was mindlessly scrolling through Facebook and then I see a screenshot of my aunts husbands dating profile posted in the group. A little less than 10 years ago, he cheated on her, made obscene comments about her weight, and got so aggressive he broke the side door to their house and the fridge door. My aunt said they worked it out (with their priest) and forgave him. Now, here we are again. I haven’t heard about any aggression lately but who knows what she’s not telling me. It’s 10 pm here so they’re likely getting their 3 kids ready for bed and for school tomorrow. She works from home and all of the kids are in school so I’m going to call her when she’s alone but I have no idea how I’m going to break this to her. Divorcing him will be SO hard, they’re barely making ends meet as it is. My heart hurts for her and I can’t believe I have to break this to her. Any advice would be so so appreciated.