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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Throwy-account on 2023-08-23 09:38:07.
We’ve been together for a year and a half, he (32M) doesn’t wanna get married, like ever, but I (25F) see myself married and having children, yesterday we had a candid conversation, he said that he loves me so much, but he’s against marriage as a concept, I told him ok, but I wanna build a family when I hit 30, eventually we agreed to date for 2 yrs, and when I become 27, I’ll breakup with him so I can start seriously date to marry.
He’s everything I’ve ever wanted, looks-wise, personality-wise, he’s even educated and has a successful career, if I had it my way I would definitely marry him, but him being so against marriage is a huge red flag to me, but I feel like he’d “settle” at some point in his life, but he doesn’t think so.
My question is: am I wasting time with him when I agreed to date him for two years? We love wach other so much but we have different plans for the future of pur love life