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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/OkZookeepergame503 on 2023-08-22 18:58:51.

Gf and I (both mid 30s) went to a glamping resort last month for a week. We split the costs equally, gf was in charge of making reservations and scheduling.

Gf had trouble verifying a few things after the reservations were made which led to the following conversation/disagreement.

Gf: I keep calling the place and not getting an answer. I’ve left several messages over the past 2 weeks and I’ve heard nothing back.

Me: are you sure they haven’t called back and you just missed the call?

Gf: yes, I have the main number saved and any other numbers associated with the place.

Me: well, did you try to call during office hours?

Gf: yes, of course, I did!

Me: are you sure that you have the correct hours?

Gf: yes! I checked the hours on the website and google!

Me: sometimes those hours can change and they’re not immediately updated. You should call at 8am tomorrow morning.

Gf: I’ve already tried calling at 8am.

Me: and what happened?

Gf: obviously I didn’t get anyone to pick up. You’re being so annoying right now.

Me: how am I annoying you? I’m just trying to figure out why you can’t get anyone at the place on the phone.

Gf: oh, so it’s my fault now that the place isn’t answering or responding to messages?

Me: I didn’t say that. OK, you said you left messages, right?

Gf: yes, I told you I left a message every time I called.

Me: did you remember to leave your name and number?

Gf: what? Omg! Yes, of course I did. Why are you talking to me like I’m stupid?

Me: I’m not talking to you like you’re stupid. I’m sorry if you think I am. Did you leave them the correct call back number?

Gf: I’ve had this number for 12 years! I think I know my phone number by now. Just leave me alone, I’m sick of you talking down to me.

Me: again, I am not talking down to you, and again, I’m sorry if you think I am. I’m trying to help you find a solution since you’ve obviously not been able to get things done.

Gf: whatever, handle it yourself, but don’t say shit to me when you don’t get a response either. (Convo ended)

We did end up getting a response in person the day we checked in, but gf was a bit pissy the whole trip saying I owe her an apology for talking down to her, but I would have asked anybody those questions, not just gf so I don’t feeI did anything wrong. Gf still says I was an absolute AH tho and still wants me to apologize.

AITA?