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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/HomeSufficient7374 on 2023-08-22 18:33:09.
Hello long story short, my roommate and I got a place together a couple of months ago and his SO got comfortable quick. SO stays here on average 5-6 days a week including working from home.
Recently my roommate has been leaving the SO at our place while he’s at work (without asking me if I’m comfortable with it.) She cooked him dinner so it can be ready by the time he got home in our kitchen as if she lives here.
I feel like a visitor at my own home because they took over the apartment. Its crazy to me how they don’t consider my comfortability since I did not sign up for this. I have talked to him before how uncomfortable I am at our apartment and nothing was resolved.
This past weekend my roommate left her here again and I asked her why is she here again? Then I told her that she needs to leave because I need my own space and privacy as well.
Not sure what to do anymore. AITA?
ef9357@lemmy.sdf.org 1 year ago
NTA. If your roommate won’t handle the issue, you may need to check with your landlord to see if your roommate having his SO basically living there is a lease violation.