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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Throw-awa-y109 on 2023-08-22 00:09:53.
I (23F) am getting married to my fiance (24M) in a month. He has an identical twin brother with whom he’s keeping a bit of a distance with cause of his past possessive behavior of wanting to share everything with each other, from interests, hobbies and even friends. His brother got eloped to his wife (27F) and even suggested to my fiance to do the same on the same day as him, but of course he shut that down quickly as we both agreed on having a wedding already. However, I ended up being contacted by my fiance’s brother requesting me to wear his wife’s wedding dress from their elopement to my wedding, which I obviously turned down, telling him that I’ve already got a specific wedding dress on my mind.
He dropped the subject and for 2 weeks I didn’t hear about it again, so I thought that was the end of it, but yesterday my fiance’s brother and his wife showed up at our house (uninvited may I add), got up SIL’s wedding dress and then literally asked me to try out right here and that they’d make adjustments if the size doesn’t fit. Thank God my husband stepped in and kicked them both out of our house, even tho it did end up with a really big argument between my fiance and his brother. I got contacted again later on by my BIL who said that my inability to make any compromises in order for his and his brother’s wedding experiences to be intertwined is straining their relationship.
Honestly at this point I’m just getting the creeps from BIL and my gut’s telling me that him and SIL may attempt to sabotage our wedding out of revenge and even my husband’s agrees with the sentiment. We’re now strongly considering to uninvite both my BIL and SIL from our wedding, but my husband’s still a bit reluctant to do it yet cause of the inevitable drama it’ll cause with his family.
AITA ?