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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Inevitable-Yam5319 on 2023-08-21 13:40:30.


Throwaway account so I can stay anonymous. I won’t say which movie is it in this post but if essential, I can write a message if asked.

So basically I (27f) got a tattoo related to my favourite movie. I have multiple other tattoos too. The thing is, my fiancé’s (29m) father (54m) hates this movie to the guts. Like, literally. I didn’t really care about it, I just never mentioned it to him like ever, knowing he hates it.

I got this tattoo on my arm, and he obviously noticed, but didn’t tell me a word about it. He called my fiancé, who got mad and yelled at me for disrespecting his father’s opinion, and told me he’s threatening to not come to our wedding and cut us off completely. My fiancé didn’t even have a problem with this tattoo at first, only now, and asking me to go remove it.

To add, I’ve planned this tattoo years before I met my fiancé, and I didn’t get it done to upset his father, which I was accused of. My parents learnt about the situation and they’re on my side, saying it’s not that big of a deal, and father-in-law has nothing to do with my body anyways.

AITA for getting the tattoo??

edit: typo; related*

edit2: I know I said I won’t put the movie here but here you go: my tattoo is the mockingjay from The Hunger Games