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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/fewshirts on 2023-08-21 05:46:33.
We’ve been together 8 years, married less than a year. Sex has always been regular and both of us have initiated. We’ve been TTC for the past 2 years, and underwent 2 rounds of IVF this year. I’ve tried to get him to share his feelings and fears around this but he won’t, though he is very supportive of me emotionally.
Now I’m very worried that he’s lost interest in me, or us, following the stresses of TTC or maybe the related changes to my body (in shape but older now and I’ve lost a lot of hair after miscarriages). Im even wondering if there’s another woman (no reason to be worried, but still). We spend a lot of time around others and don’t have our own space much, but that’s never impeded our sex life in the past. What can I say to him to start a gentle conversation?