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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Straight_Praline_272 on 2023-08-13 14:15:59.
I live with my younger son(21) and daughter(16). Both me and my son work full time and my daughter is in highschool and has a part time job.
Recently my older son and DIL lost their home and had to move in with us because they don’t have anywhere else to go. My son is the breadwinner and DIL is a SAHM which I think is ridiculous considering they only have a 17 yo son. My grandson also doesn’t work which I guess is fine since he is still a minor.
So when they moved in I told my son that he can sleep in my room and my grandson can sleep in my younger son’s room. I told my DIL that she can sleep on the couch.
She argued that she can’t sleep there because we all go to work at different times and she is a lightsleeper so she will wake up every time someone goes to work but I told her that since she is doing nothing all day then she has the entire day to sleep so waking up that much won’t be an issue.
She thinks I’m an asshole and insists on sharing with my daughter but my daughter is also a lightsleeper and can’t sleep well with someone else in her room and she has the smallest room so it will be uncomfortable for her