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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/hihihihipie on 2023-08-13 06:41:51.
Hi everyone, I recently went on a date with a guy who I thought seemed nice and we had a lot in common. I had shared with him on the first date how my dad passed away in December because it came up during conversation. He seemed very understanding the first date and in general very affectionate, we were already holding hands and he was wanted to kiss me and what not. He asked me for a second date within a couple days after and we met up for dinner.
The second date he seemed a lot more standoffish for some reason and told me how he had basically looked through my whole Instagram and started asking personal questions like “why I have more pics of my dad on Instagram” and probing about why I broke up with my last ex. I would feel like I would answer his question but then he would probe more and in general I felt pretty uncomfortable. He then would question why I was freezing or couldn’t really finish what I was saying. It eventually got out of me that I’ve been having a bit of trauma since my dads passing and sometimes I don’t really know how to answer personal questions like the one he was asking me. He seemed understanding but again standoffish and I honestly felt like I was under a microscope.
We ended up like making out at his place and I left because it was getting late. He had also admitted to me that he took an edible before meeting up. When I left I kissed him and he was just like “okay” and I’m like “uhh…?” He’s like “you don’t have to make it awkward” then he kissed me more. I honestly left feeling very uncomfortable and not sure how much of the situation I made awkward. It’s sucks cuz the first date was so good and it seemed like we had a lot in common. Not sure if I should see him again