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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/sabewl on 2023-08-13 06:26:29.
I’m actually so confused on what to even think about this. I met this guy in college a few years ago but we weren’t exactly friends. We bumped into each other a few days ago and he asked me out on a date. The date was last night. We were having dinner and getting to know each other. He was describing the sort of person he is and what he looks for in a relationship. He said “I don’t care about looks, I care more about personality than anything else”. I didn’t think anything of this comment.
Later on into the dinner, he was telling a story about a horrible date he had a few months ago. He said she was gorgeous but her personality was crap, then said “opposite of you basically, but don’t worry, I don’t care about looks”. I thought alright this guy definitely isn’t attracted to me and that’s fine, we don’t have to have another date and I wasn’t super into him either. After the date, he sent a voice note saying he had a great time and he loves my personality, and I’m proof that personality matters more than looks. At this point I was kind of sure this guy was doing it on purpose. Making that comment once or twice during the date I could write off as just a lack of tact or something. But that voice note was so condescending I have a hard time believing he wasn’t just trying to knock my confidence down.
I checked our Instagram chat from college because I wanted to see if he always used to talk this weird to me. There was only one conversation there from 2 years ago where he sent me my own Instagram post saying “Hello gorgeous 😍”. So Uhm?