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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/MadamMyztery on 2023-08-13 02:32:49.
I met this guy… and he is 100% not my type physically. I’m not body shaming but it comes up later with the topic of “personal preferences”
We’ve been easing our way into a relationship and have been intimate a few times. We’ve always been intimate in the dark. We both have insecurities so that’s fine.
But… today we were having a conversation about surgeries and he’s showing me the two scars on his knee where the doctors inserted… like… medical tools to work on his knee. I stood up and showed him my simular experience scars. My tubal ligation scars. One in my belly botton… and I pulled my pants down an inch and showed him the other scar.
I also showed him pubic hair.
Not a lot. Im groomed well but… not shaved to the skin…
This mans face turned to pure disgust. Pure. Disgust. And not just a twitch and correct… a full on stare through the few sentences I said, held with such a visceral reaction his lip twist upwards and his body pushed back…
I covered the inch of my pelvic area and, while feeling horrible about myself, left his house right then and there while he asked to talk about it…
I’m sorry. More like… how he wanted me to listen to him justify himself.
He said "I don’t know why you’re so upset over me having a no hair preference. It’s like me being mad because you like tall and skinny and I’m not that.
He’s not tall… or skinny… (5’8 250lbs. Im 5’3 140)
I told him no. It’s not like that at all. What he did is literally like if he stood infront of me and took off his shirt and I stared at his chest fat or love handles or whatever else… and tell him without a single word I was disgusted by his body as it stood before me.
We can have preferences… but to have such a visceral reaction infront of the person was disgusting of him.
I told him I never did that to him… never made him feel like his biggest insecurity (his body) had a single fault I found disgusting.
As i sit here now I never pointed out that its a huge turn off we almost have the same chest size… or that when he eats, he… EATS and a lot of what he eats is utter junk food and soda while he bitches about wanting to loose weight. I know that i accepted his body and touched his sides and smacked his ass and rubbed his clavical area… but knowing getting onto of him meant like… closing in on a split… Even just straddling his lap… it was something I ignored because i liked who he was and he was starting to go to the gym so i fell off it and moved on… but… he was so disgusted by an inch of natural… groomed pubic hair… it just pisses me off so bad when he has an entire body he wants accepted.
Maybe I’m over reacting. Idk. I just wanted to vent.