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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Designer_Ad4117 on 2023-08-12 18:17:48.


My (28m) wife (26f, Jenny) and I are housesitting for my parents for two weeks while they are on vacation. They have a big house with a pool and a dog, and it’s a nice change of pace from the apartment, so we were happy to do it.

I had to travel for work for two days this week, so my wife was alone at the house. I got a text from my dad on Thursday afternoon, saying “might want to give Jenny a heads up the pool guy will be at the house anytime this afternoon.” I said “ok”, and he said “might want to tell her, like, now.”

It was a confusing message so I texted Jenny to give her a heads up, and she just said “omg ok funny.” It was all weird so I called her, and she said she was swimming and laying out with nothing on (it’s a private yard).

I immediately texted my dad and asked how he knew Jenny was in the pool, and he said he and my mom were checking the house cameras and saw her. I let him know I thought it was odd they checked the camera and saw her naked, and that they basically let me know they saw Jenny. They think I am completely missing the point, that they were looking out for her.

(I told Jenny that they had checked the cameras and saw her, and she was completely unbothered, said she figured, and appreciated the heads up. I asked if it bothered her that they saw her and she said I am totally overreacting.)

AITA for calling out my parents for this?