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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/twodimencionalGiu on 2023-08-12 20:15:49.
I need to express this somewhere. I know I really shouldn’t feel jealous about this because deep down I KNOW NOTHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN.
I recently started dating a guy (M20) that I have known for a year at university and he has a friend (F20) I know the girl, she is one of the purest souls I have ever met and I can say that we are also friends.
He has known the girl for longer than me, but as I mentioned in the title, she is asexual (both romantically and sexually) and my boyfriend sees her as a sister and vice versa. Hell, she even helped him gain the confidence to ask me out.
Today my boyfriend sent me a message that he was meeting her at his house to watch a series. I couldn’t help but feel jealous about it. The other day they even got together with her after classes and they went to a park for lunch (That time I wasn’t that jealous, because I hadn’t gone to the university that day). They also live close to each other. I live 40 minutes (by car) from my boyfriend’s house and on top of that in the suburbs of my country, while he and she are in the city.
I want to clarify that my jealousy is moderately justified. My ex boyfriend cheated on me with his “asexual bestfriend who he considered his sister”. But I know that my boyfriend is different and that he REALLY THINKS OF HER AS A SISTER. I’m afraid to say anything because I don’t want to ruin their friendship or have my boyfriend tell me I’m overreacting. I don’t want to look like the crazy jealous girlfriend.
Any ideas please??