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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Ok-Writer-2342 on 2023-08-12 16:15:00.
I recently got divorced from my second husband “Greyson.” I was married to “Jack” before and we have a 9yo son.
My marriage to Greyson ended on a sour note and he moved back to Oregon. I found that the day before he left, he had spent the entire day with my 9yo. Greyson had asked me if that was okay and I said no. I want to move on. So he waited until Jack had our son. Jack said sure.
I was pissed off. Jack said our son deserved a proper goodbye and Greyson never did anything to him. I said you weren’t married to him. I don’t want him in my life and all you did was keep him there after I said I wasn’t okay with him spending time with our son.