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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/GuiltyManager7878 on 2023-08-12 18:58:04.
So i have been talking to this guy for a few months now. Met him on tinder, hes really kind, openminded and we have a lot in common. Pretty much everything id want in a guy
Im convinced im an AH here. I feel like i also led him on.
We’ve met 3 times. One at the cinema, 2nd time we went to the gym together and 3rd time today watching a movie at his place then going out for some food.
We’ve mentioned in the past about what we’d do on future dates. I really wanted to like him, i tried, but the feelings and attraction arent there.
I also feel like im not ready for a relationship. I have trauma from when i was a child thats come back up in recent years. Im on a waiting list for a therapist so im going to get help for it, but i dont want to be in a relationship 5 months down and we still havent done anything intimate due to my traumas, otherwise i wouldve wanted to. I just dont want to deal with that.
Ive never had a bf or been in love, so i dont really feel anything with him.
Love and relationships also freak me out.
I told him now that im not ready for a relationship due to trauma. I didnt say that i didnt like him because i dont want to make him upset by thinking i led him on. Am i a bad person here? We talk constantly on snapchat too. I just feel awful.