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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/annatasija on 2023-08-12 05:09:57.

For context me and my boyfriend are in long term relationship. We are 24 years old but don’t live together. We see each other at his or my house every evening. He doesn’t drive, but I do.

Long story short, whenever we do something sexual, he doesn’t seem to care to make me cum anymore. He used to always give me an orgasm back in the day. We will start doing sexual stuff and then his dad would call that he was nearby and if he wants to go home to pick him up. I would be 5 minutes away from orgasm and he decides to leave just because his dad was nearby to drive him home… I tell him to deny it and that I will drive him off to his home later, let’s finish what were doing, and to continue because I’m close to orgasm… And he always makes the excuse that I used to take a long time to cum and that it’s not guaranteed that I will have an orgasm… I’m wondering why can’t he ever deny his dad? He says that he feels uncomfortable me driving him home, but i don’t mind. Also, if he was that much uncomfortable, he could have taken a taxi which is only 3 dollars where I’m located plus he lives only 20 minutes away walking, 5 minutes with car. I didn’t mind at all, when this happened the first times. But it started to be a regular occurrence, his dad calls and he immediately leaves. When we do sex now all I can think about is his phone ringing.

This leaves me feeling frustrated and masturbating isn’t fun to me anymore… I used to finish myself off when he left me hanging like this in the past. But I don’t want to masturbate anymore. He cums everytime we have sex and I cum maybe once every 2 weeks.

In the past he used to try to finish me if I didn’t cum during penetration, but now, after sex he just gets his phone scrolling, and we lay down… And he says “are you going to ‘work’ with your vibrator after I leave?”

Today I told him that I haven’t had an orgasm in maybe 15 days and he got turned on and started to finger me and I was sooooooo much into it. And boom same situation, he leaves after his dad calls him and tells me to finish it off with the vibrator…

Am I right to feel this way or not?