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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/DeanTheMean on 2023-08-11 18:48:37.

My longtime friend invited me to his buddy’s bachelor party weekend at a house near the beach. I’ve met bachelor only a handful of times, same with a few of the other people attending; some I didn’t even know. I think my buddy invited me because he wanted to spend time with me because we don’t see each other that much and I also think he wanted to lower the cost of the Airbnb. He said I would have to pay $337 for my part of the Airbnb which I was fine to pay.

The day before leaving I got a call from my job that required me to work the Friday they were leaving so I wouldn’t be able to attend. I apologized to my friend but there was nothing I could do about missing work. A week after the bachelor weekend, I went to see him and he told me that everyone thought I should still have to pay. He sent me a venmo request. I honestly think that they should just divide up the amount I owe and make everyone else pay. I also gave my buddy a bunch of weed that I grew before he left as a sorry for not going and he gave it to all the people. I don’t plan on paying. AITA?