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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/domainsarama on 2023-08-11 14:26:32.
I have new neighbors next door and when they moved in the mentioned they were having a back yard wedding for their daughter. We were invited but declined due to other conflicts.
The wedding was to take place on a Sunday. The prior Wednesday l, they had a big party with loud music and karaoke. Given they seemed like reasonable people, I figured they would shut down the music after 11pm (quiet time bylaw in my area)
They did not shut it down and only got louder. Around 1am when myself, wife or two kids could not sleep, i went over and kindly asked them to turn down the music. We always had a very quiet neighborhood.
I got yelled at, like hard, and have it all on video, thanks to my security system. Music continues until 3am.
So the next day it happens again. I don’t say anything.
Friday comes around and I called bylaw asking them to ask the neighbors to respect the noise bylaw. I also mentioned the wedding…
Well turns out backyard weddings need a permit, which they did not have. Bylaw said no wedding or huge fine.
They had 2 days to find a new venue and we l found out from others they are super upset.
AITA?
My intention was not to fuck is their wedding just get them to be more respectful. Either way what’s done is done.