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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Virtual-Ad-7240 on 2023-08-10 19:16:34.

I find this very hurtful to say to someone during an intimate moment and he could’ve said this more gracefully at a later moment or made up another excuse. I think I would cry if someone straight up told me this during such a vulnerable moment while I’m trying to pleasure them and I’m showing off my naked body. I can’t shake how I feel about him now after they said this and I am completely turned off. Have you ever told someone this during sex and how could that be a good idea? If you don’t find someone sexually attractive how do you go through with getting them in bed anyways? I… This is the kind of shit that could make someone feel very insecure. You SHOULD feel loved and like the best thing on Earth during sex, everyone deserves that. He tells me that I’m his type and it doesn’t make me feel good because even if I ever pursued him, I know that I wouldn’t get what I want and need as well based on how they treated a past partner. Sometimes it’s best to cut losses?