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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/kimsoonie on 2023-08-10 18:03:09.

I want to preface this by saying I know I’m very lucky to have someone who is always down, and this might sound like a meme, but I just wanted to tell someone.

My boyfriend always wants to give me head, and it makes me feel uncomfortable sometimes. Anytime we hang out, he will try to go down on me, and when I ask him to stop, he says he just wants to make me feel good and wants nothing more. I do appreciate it, but sometimes I just don’t want it? And from there, I usually ask him to stop a few more times until he does. Sometimes I just want to hang out without it being sexual, and I feel bad for constantly rejecting him. I do want to try to talk to him about it, but part of me feels like maybe I’m being too sensitive or being ungrateful about this, like I’m complaining about my boyfriend caring too much about my pleasure. I don’t want to make him feel bad or like I don’t enjoy or appreciate our intimacy. Am I weird for not always letting him go down on me? Is this worth bringing up, or am I overthinking it?