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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/AnteaterFair6747 on 2023-08-09 22:51:24.

My boyfriend and me were just fooling around, the typical stuff. But today I didn’t particularly was in the mood for sex. He understands that sometimes I am just not in the mood but it seems like it confused him, that I wasn’t in the mood for sex (penetrative) but I was asking him to stimulate my clitoris. I finished him off because I enjoy it, but yeah this whole thing apparently caused him to be confused and unsure.

For him he gets aroused when he stimulates his dick, but for me that isn’t always the case. I can stimulate myself, I even frequently orgasm without being mentally aroused because I just enjoy the physical sensation. But penetrative sex is something more intimate for me so I guess when I’m not mentally aroused I don’t want to have sex because it would feel unnatural. But I enjoyed him stimulating my clitoris because of the sensation, it just felt like a nice massage but I wasn’t mentally aroused. I guess for me there is a difference in liking the sensation and being aroused? It’s not like I am never horny but sometimes I have this and it feels unnormal because of his reaction.

So am I weird? I don’t know if this was due to stress but I just wasn’t enough mentally aroused to have sex. Please don’t tell me I’m the only one experiencing that.