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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/minty085 on 2023-08-09 18:37:07.
I had a huge crush on my husband for the longest time growing up and looking back, it/I was a little embarrassing so I don’t like being reminded about it. While I’m sure our parents knew about my crush, I only spoke about it with my sister and his sister back then.
My sister brought it up last month and I was honestly mortified and told her to shut up. She did, but my brother-in-law is like a dog with a bone and now keeps bringing it up and making fun of me for being “obsessed” with my husband. He does it constantly and in front of friends and family.
I’ve asked him multiple times to stop but he wouldn’t because he thought saying my husband was the one who was obsessed with me now made it better. My husband finally got mad at him and they had a bad fight over it in front of both of our families. My sister said my husband overreacted and I told her it was all her fault because she should’ve never brought up my old crush in front of my in-laws when she knows I find how I was then embarrassing.
She doesn’t think I can blame her for this because she was only sharing a “cute” story but I do. She said I’m being unfair and is upset that I’ve continued to say it’s her fault.
AITA?