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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/KeyConcentrate533 on 2023-08-09 16:32:38.
My(32m) fiancé(31f) was working from home this morning. I asked her if she would like some bacon and an egg sandwich, she said yes. She does prefer mayo on both sides of the toast when she has this but as I prepared it all, I forgot. As soon as I set it in front of her, I remembered and said “hold on I forgot the mayo and I’ll go put it on real quick.” to which she replied, “forget it, it’s fucked now.”. I got upset by this comment as it made me feel as if I had somehow ruined breakfast so I tried to explain that it was an easy remedy and the sandwich was most definitely not “fucked”. She told me to just forget it again so I went back into the kitchen and finished making my sandwich and sat down. She came in and started to talk about how she thought it would be a fried egg, which again, just felt like she was complaining about nothing as I never said I would be making a fried egg, just stated bacon and an egg sandwich. When I got upset that she seemed to still just be complaining, she basically told me that I was wrong, she wasn’t complaining and was just making comments and I was being an asshole for being upset since she didn’t say anything wrong. AITA?
EDIT: I scrambled the eggs in a bowl with some seasoning and a bit of milk. Put it in the bacon grease and waited until it was cooked on the bottom, flipped the egg like a pancake and cooked the other side. Cut it in half and put it on the toast like a sandwich.
EDIT: I appreciate everyone’s thoughts and concerns, I had no idea this would jump up to almost 400 comments in an hour. Please feel free to keep commenting but I apologize if I no longer reply, I feel like I got the answers I needed and will be having a deeper discussion with my fiancé tonight when she gets off work. Thank you again everyone, you have all made me feel a lot better and given me the knowledge I believe I need to move forward.