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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/poppy_11 on 2023-08-09 18:25:32.
I’ve been married for 1 year, together for 4. I just need to vent about my husband! I love him so much but he can’t seem to stay on top of things he needs to do. This morning I found an opened envelope from our mortgage servicer asking for proof of home insurance. This letter was from February! I texted my husband asking if he had already taken care of it, since he had opened the letter. He said no and asked if I could find the insurance paperwork and email it to him. So now, I’m unreasonably furious that if I hadn’t have found this letter it would never have been taken care of!! I have to find it, text him, AND dig up the right paperwork from our insurance. It just made me think of the huge laundry list of things I’ve asked him to take care of over the past year that he just won’t do. I’m actually crying right now out of frustration. It’s just so darn tough carrying everything and worrying that if I don’t notice, make a plan, and execute something it just won’t get done. Even if he does something, 90% of the time it’s because I’ve asked him and told him exactly what to do. I’ve cried to him and begged him to do better but he can’t seem to make it happen. I’m at my wits end with this stuff. And of course he immediately came up with the excuse of “I didn’t know it had to be done so manually.” Excuse me, WTF? All I did was READ the letter and it had clear instructions. I’m just feeling so sad that I can’t trust him to handle anything.