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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/912911521354 on 2023-08-09 06:21:24.
I (23f) was seeing a guy (24m) who I’ll call Bob. Me and Bob had only seen each other 2 times before this incident so it wasn’t very serious.
Now during our most recent date 3 days ago I brought up and showed him my two cats, Ed Sheeran and Bartholomeow (please don’t question their names) who I love to bits. Bob laughed about their names and he said that it’s a shame I would have to get rid of them if he ever moved in. I asked why and he told me he’s allergic, and not “he’ll get the sniffles” kinda bad but more like “he could die if he doesn’t have epi-pen on him” kinda bad.
This was a deal breaker for me but I didn’t want to be rude so I continued with date like normal then politely informed him afterwards that we should see other people. He asked why and I told him the reason which made him pissed and he said that nobody should choose their pets over their partner which weirded me out since again we had only seen each other twice before this.
He then harassed me for the next two days telling me that I was “wasting a good man” and that “relationships can last a lifetime and cats will die” and other shit like that until I blocked his number.
Now I feel like I dodge a total bullet but I do kinda feel bad so AITA?