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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Alex_Ikari1 on 2023-08-09 03:01:13.
I(20F) am getting married in a little under a year and my mom(43F) is insisting that her affair partner walks me down the isle. I know that I probably sound like an ass for referring to him(37M) as her affair partner but he knew my mom was married and still helped her cheat on my dad(62M). My dad is still alive and even prior to announcing my engagement to my mom I had asked my dad if he could walk me down the aisle and he said yes but my mom is still pissed at me for not welcoming her affair partner into the family by having him give me away. I barely know her affair partner nor do I even want him at my wedding and I’ve made that clear but now my mom is dragging all my relatives into it and they’re saying that I’m being an ass and should just let her affair partner walk me down the aisle. I ended up telling my mom that I don’t want anything to do with her affair partner and that he needs to stop trying to replace my dad. Now a bunch of my family is saying that they won’t come to my wedding and even one of my bridesmaids backed out. AITA
Edit: my mom only has an invite because my wedding falls on her week with my little sister(11F)
Edit: for those questioning the age gape of my parents I was adopted they didn’t have a biological kid together until my mom was in her 30’s