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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Nice_Layer2618 on 2023-08-09 01:59:41.
Now read for context. I’ve always struggled with men. Often rejected found they never really took an interest in me and it was like pulling teeth. I’m average (which btw men absolutely refuse to believe average women are practically invisible and have just as hard of time dating) anyway, after hardly getting messages and things going no where, I decided to do an experiment. I kept all my same information and personality traits on my profile but changed all the photos to a Sexy brunette Caucasian girl.
Well Let Me tell you… of course there were sleezy people, but one I was getting matched with messages at least 15 matches in the last 24 hours with 10 of them actually being messaged. All of sudden it was genuine questions… what do you like to do, tell me more about yourself, this immediate desire to genuinely want to know me. One of the guys was a biomedical engineer and was interested in a date despite the fact we had nothing in common. It really hit home guys really only care about you if you’re hot and their ideal, at least until they get you, because I know even beautiful women get played. It was just interesting because it was paragraphs and engaging conversations and it made me realize how much better a man will treat you if you’re hot regardless of anything else. It’s frustrating how much men complain how they can’t get women or women are so picky, but now I’m fully convinced they are crying because they can’t get the the top tier of women and refuse to connect with anyone more on their level.
Thoughts