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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/alextoowell on 2023-08-09 00:48:33.

I (23f) noticed for a while now that i mostly get turned on by the thought of how the sex/situation is sexy for the other person involved. I know this could just be normal, but i keep wondering whether i should not also get turned on by MY pleasure. Like shouldn’t i think about how this is good for ME and not the men? I’m probably reading too much into this, but it makes me think whether the “male gaze” is so deeply ingrained in my brain that even getting turned on needs to happen through the eyes of men… Hope this makes sense to someone on here :)