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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Lolafootsies on 2023-08-08 22:32:05.
Yesterday there was some work going on at my house so my uncle in law (53M) said to me (F23) that because of my tattoos, I will “never find a guy”. As it will “scare them off”.
He was pretty drunk when he said it and I didn’t think too much into it. But now, I hate that he even said it in the first place because now I feel like he’s looking at me in a certain way and I just don’t get why he had to say it in the first place. I feel sick thinking about it and it makes me really angry that not only did the thought cross his mind but he felt the need to say it in front of everyone too.
I kept thinking about it to the point where last night I sat down and had a little cry. I don’t think my tattoos are that bad and I really don’t regret them either, but now I’m thinking the guys in my past have seen this too and they didn’t tell me.
I don’t know what to believe. Are tattoos that unattractive? I feel kind of disgusted, sad and worried by the whole thing.