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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/TheMFGrinch on 2023-08-08 20:58:23.
I am very much on the fence about whether I’d like a child and I can see the pros and cons of a life both with and without children. I think that I would be a great mother and I would love and cherish my child if I did have them in the future. On the other hand, I think that my life would be more stress-free without them and I would be able to do whatever I wanted whenever with my partner. I used to be staunchly r /child free and had an abortion in the past, I keep thinking about this lately. How did you decide to become a mother or not? How do you feel about it now?