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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/InfamousBuffalo9238 on 2023-08-07 20:13:04.
Me (27f) and my bf (30m) will be moving soon when our lease is over. My mom (57f) has always, since I was a child, not liked being with my dad. There’s not abuse but he is very distant and their marriage has never been good. She’s always talked about leaving and divorcing and is always complaining to me about their marriage. She asked me if she could move in with us when we move.
I told her, I’d be okay with that if she starts the process of separation/divorce and talks with a lawyer. This is because she’s put a lot of money in their house and she deserves to take a portion of what is hers as well and the fact that I can’t afford a two bedroom if she decides to make up and go back with my dad. I told her I’d help her in anyway she needs with the lawyer and paying for it and all that. However, since saying this, she is now ignoring me.
AITA for not just saying yes to my mom moving in with me?