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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/CheetahPrintPuppy on 2023-08-07 20:18:53.
I have a group of friends (2 women with their SOs) so, six of us total. We have had many other people in the group of friends but the six of us have been a group of friends for about 6 years now.
This last weekend one set of friends said they were going away for a vacation. Cool. No big deal. Then, suddenly, my second set of friends said they were gonna go camping at the same time that the first set said they were leaving for vacation. Okay…great…have fun?
Then for the whole week this Information was given, everyone was super secretive about where they were going and what they were doing and whom with. Obviously my spouse and I noticed and we started to speculate and put two and two together. We assumed they were going together somewhere as a friend group.
Then one of my distant friends posted up a ton of Instagram pictures of both sets of my friends but it was a huge group camping trip with other friends we haven’t seen in a while. All in all there was a total of twelve people on this trip. All of them we know well and are friends with.
So now, my spouse and I are trying to figure out why they were hiding it from us? We are not campers and they know we aren’t…so why lie about the trip?
I have come to the conclusion that maybe they don’t really like us that much or maybe they think we “don’t fit in” with everyone? We are not super skinny people, they are. I am also very bubbly and they are not. We love board games, DND and video games, they dont do any of those things. They love hiking, interior decoration and playing instruments.
I can’t assume they have not liked us for six years? So whats going on here? I feel like it’s shame, guilt or fear?