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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/breakfree0 on 2023-08-07 05:59:42.
Oh god I’m going to sound like the red pillers but reversed. . Everything I did was wrong apparently I was a failure at everything. He seemed to have perfect standards for me none for himself. I should take the majority of the load of cooking cleaning , childrearing (luckily I only agreed to one kid so can continue career building) , life admin taking care of my appearance, working full time , sex on demand but no affection.
This seems a consistent thing for my girlfriends none have a truly 50/50 partnership. I realised I get the vast majority of my emotional needs met by female friends. I don’t want to be someone’s surrogate mother they have sex with and low affection Having sex with randoms isn’t worth the risk for potential stds with low chance of orgasm so casual sex doesnt sound fun.
Vibrators and cats seem more appealing by the day.