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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/throwWay8282wu on 2023-08-06 20:23:55.
My 20F i’m an ugly woman ( confirmed by multiple people even in reddit amiuglybrutallyhonest) and my appearance really impacted my quality of life and it’s mainly because of my dad he has below average appearance and inherited his bad genes.
I currently live with my dad in a small apartment, my mom died 4 years ago so it’s me and him. And i’ve been saving up for plastic surgery for over 2 years.
Today my dad came and asked me if he could borrow some of my savings for emergent situation and i told him no i really need them, and then he started talking about how selfish i am and it “ won’t hurt if i lend him 1.5k”
I snapped at this point and told him that the only reason i’m saving is because i got his ugly features and i can’t believe how my mom lowered her standard and accepted him.
And he is the selfish one for bringing me to this life knowing how ugly he is and how i will suffer as a result of his genes and then he left,
Yesterday at 1AM i couldn’t sleep because of him he was crying the whole night and i told him to stop crying and act like adult he is not a 12 years old anymore.
When i told my friend about what happened she called me AH and I should’ve handled it better?