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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/jen_wexxx on 2023-08-06 15:07:01.
I went out with someone the other day and I can’t shake that something is off about him. He seems nice and like he wants me to think he really cares about women because he’s close with his sister and mom, but my gut is saying watch out now that I’ve had time to think. They’re not so bad by themselves but together it makes me wonder.
- Didn’t seem super into talking at first, then I’m getting walls off text suddenly that he expected me to read and absorb, then reference back to on the date
- Wanted to know my attachment style
- Gave me a lot of info up front on how secure he is with himself
- Saw a man while we were walking so moved me to the side for my safety
- was irritated with me when Google maps took me to the wrong meeting spot
- showed up to the first date with a gift
- let me know his mom was in the loop on us meeting and that she warned him I might be out to get him because it was at a public park???
- sent his mom my pictures after the date
- sent me a screenshot of his unanswered messages from the app we started talking on from other women
I don’t know, but this doesn’t sit right with me. I normally let someone know as soon as I’m not feeling it right away. But if this does come off as creep behavior, how should I let him down without backlash? I live alone and my radar is going off. No he hasn’t been here, but still. My radar hasn’t always worked well and I’ve ignored signs in the past that could have prevented abusive relationships with guys had I known what to look out for up front. Thoughts?