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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Gracilis67 on 2023-08-06 08:33:22.


I’ll be turning 30 soon and have never been intimate with a man before. Not even held hands. Or gone out on a date.

I’m not asexual or saving myself for marriage. It just hasn’t happened.

Now that I have done inner work, I think I’m ready to start dating. I do want a committed relationship one day but since the dating market is so bad, I’ll be okay with a FWB. I want to explore my sexuality and lose my virginity. I know I should wait for the right person but given how terrible dating is; I might as well find a FWB.

Has anyone been in this same boat before? And how do you handle all the physical intimacy before the relationship turns serious?

I’d appreciate any words of insight!