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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/liedchildfreewedding on 2023-08-06 01:53:32.
My (25M) girlfriend (25F) and I went to my sister’s wedding last week and I told her it was child free even though it wasn’t
Context: my girlfriend has a kid, a little girl who’s 3yo and she takes her EVERYWHERE. We rarely have private moment as a couple
Now, don’t get me wrong, I love my girlfriend’s daughter, but it gets exhausting to never have moments between just me and my girlfriend
So, when I told my girlfriend about my sister’s wedding, I told her that it was child free and I asked if she could have someone babysit her daughter. She asked her mom, who agreed.
At the wedding, there was obviously children, a detail I’d forgotten, and when my girlfriend confusingly asked me why were there kids if it was a child free wedding, I simply told her I had no idea
She went to the bathroom during the dinner but i noticed she wasn’t coming back so I went to look for her and I encountered my sister who looked very angry
My sister called me an asshole and a coward. Apparently, she ran into my girlfriend who was upset with her because my gf thought my sister had only applied the child free rule to her. She told my girlfriend that her wedding was never child free, which made my girlfriend even madder, but at me, and she left
I called my girlfriend but she didn’t answered and when I came home her things and her daughter’s weren’t there anymore
My sister is also not talking to me anymore because she thinks I “threw her under the bus” even though I never told my girlfriend it was my sister’s idea to only apply the child free rule to her
I think I had a good reason to tell my girlfriend it was child free but having both my sister and girlfriend mad at me is making me think otherwise