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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/thatawkwardgirl666 on 2023-08-06 02:48:57.
My fiance and I have been going through a major rough patch, and it only seems to be getting worse. We argue over every single little thing, we both feel neglected by the other and we just aren’t happy anymore. The thing that broke me today was the fact that he said I abandoned him after I was having car issues and told him to find a different ride home from a party. I tried like hell to get my car to cooperate in the sweltering heat, and I just couldn’t do it. I went back inside and went to bed because I have to work tonight. He found a ride home and woke me up to start a fight over it. To “prove” his point, he grabbed my keys and got my car to work and said I just abandoned him. He left for work and I just cried while I got myself together for another 12hr overnight shift. I am tired. My mental health has been horrible lately and I’ve been just barely scraping by financially. I can’t afford to just up and leave since I also dont have anywhere to go. But after nearly a year of carrying all of the labor around the house, emotional, mental and physical, I am done. I dont get anything out of it except being told I nag him and told I don’t do enough for him. I’ve been begging him for help, but he tells me that I don’t ask for help. After nearly a decade together, I just can’t do it anymore. I’m broken. I dont think I’ll ever try dating again after this, its not worth the stress and the heartache.