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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Vegetable-Layer-404 on 2023-08-05 22:45:55.
Note: parents aren’t in our lives for reasons I won’t go into.
I (25F) have a few siblings, but I’ll talk about sister A (29F), the oldest.
I’m a completely independent woman who can manage daily life, but for some reason, A doesn’t think that. I live on my own, but she stated that she wants to be updated on everything that is going on. If she texts and I don’t respond within an hour, she will keep calling me until I call back.
When I got my two previous jobs, A demanded that I send her a copy of my contracts, and I did to keep the peace. I recently was offered a new job, and I took the offer. They sent me a job contract. I told A that I was offered a new job, and I had taken it. She demanded that I send her a copy of the agreement; I decided it was time to stick up for myself, and I responded politely, saying no, it’s my contract, and I won’t be sending it to you as it’s my business.
She asked for it again; I politely responded, " Listen, I’ve told you no. This is my contract, and it’s for me and the company only." she started saying I was a complete asshole and needed to send her the contract. I responded, “Listen, I don’t know why you are like this. I said no twice; this is the last time I’m saying no. I’m independent, and this is a contract between me and the business only. I’m not sending you the contract”.
I don’t know why she’s like this; I’m independent; I live independently and pay my bills on time.
I think I’m the asshole here because I could send the contract to keep the peace, but I don’t want to, as I’m independent.
I don’t know why she’s behaving like this; I think it’s stupid, but AITA?