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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/MedswithBreakfast on 2023-08-06 01:25:36.
I’m (34f) back at it to find new friends. With women, we would match, briefly talk, and then they don’t respond. I would want to set up hangouts and don’t hear from them. A few unmatched me. I shrugged it off. The only ones who followed through to want to hang out were guys. Some showed their hand when I asked to meet at public places. They wanted to meet up in my room. I had started saying I have a bf because it was quicker for guys to unmatch when they heard that. Then I had the guys I met who seem like amazing friends. I am happy and having someone to talk to. They talk to me. Then it turns into I’m their type, if only I was available, could be more, sure you are happy with your bf? Those who matched before I said I have a bf asked to be friends with benefits. They were free to hangout if we were to have sex. No sex meant they couldn’t hang out.
I tried again and met three people. All three turn out to be playing the long game too. They all are saying I am their type. Why can’t we be more? Am I happy with my bf? I’m perfect for them. It’s exhausting. I have to start all over again. Nobody wants true friendship. I can’t have a conversation with them without hearing if only I was single. One hadn’t said it as they had a gf. He dumped her. Thus starts I am his type.